Why? Did it not work out?
For most of my adult life, I have heard some variation of the “Why? Did it not work out?” statement whenever someone spoke about something that they were either doing or wanted to do which was not strictly aligned to their college/university degree. Needless to say, this statement irks me to no end. We have developed this strange societal notion that a decision made by our 16/18 year old self must continue to define the next 45/50 years of our existence on this planet with no opportunity to reassess the life choices made by a (comparatively) immature person while ignoring the accumulated knowledge and wisdom gained by our older self. Any attempt to listen to more mature versions of ourselves must be suppressed as the people who ought to support us the most may instead ridicule us by asking, “Why? Did it not work out?” I think most people who ask this question may be voicing their own insecurities as they may be terrified of trying new things or exploring new career paths or even learni...